"Women wish to be loved not because they are pretty, or good, or well bred, or graceful, or intelligent,

but because they are themselves." -- Henri Frederic Amiel

"If you want it, you can have it

But you've got to learn to reach out there and grab it" - weezer 

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Dare To Be A Man : Love Communicates

by David G. Evans (author of Healed Without Scars)

Have you ever been in a relationship with a person who talks in fragments, as though everything is a secret?
 You ask question after question, because you are receiving one - word answers that offer no detail. In that kind of relationship, you are not being treated like a person who is part of a loving , covenant connection. Responses like "just trust me" or "that's none of your business" breed distance rather than closeness in communication.

It is impossible to feel secure in this type of relationship. Security is cultivated in a relationship when communication produces familiarity with your thought process. Love that informs cultivates a safe place in the heart.

When you feel informed, you are inspired in your relationship. Creativity, sensitivity, and a considerate atmosphere are built. When a person is not communicative, however, those in relationship with him or her alter their perception of the person's moods, anxieties, struggles, and challenges. Those around him or her become less and less concerned, which is actually the last thing the non-communicative individual wants. In general, this type of person desires a level of communication he or she is not willing to give. By the time a non communicator decides to talk, significant others have given up hope of ever having true, meaningful interactions. Loved ones then learn not to care deeply.

www.davidgevans.com

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"All progress is precarious, and the solution of one problem brings us face to face
 
with another problem." - Martin Luther King. Jr.